Anonymous said: Thank you for your help! <3 it cleared some stuff up ! You're wonderful

Aww, thanks!! Best of luck, love!

Anonymous said: Okay so I just found out about asexuallity, and I think I might be asexual. I've researched it and most of the deceptions fit me pretty well, but does being asexual mean you're NEVER attracted sexually, or just to sex specifically? I read some other asks and it said masturbation was normally, and so were regular relationships, is that true?sorry if these seem like dumb questions..

Asexual only means you don’t experience sexual attraction. Attraction is different from drive.:)

You can have urges and masturbate, that’s completely fine! However, if you get sexual urges from looking at people, you’re not asexual or you’re demisexual if you only experience them sometimes.

Does that help? :)

No question is a dumb question!

mad4morphues121 said: This. I'm glad I found this. My boyfriend and I were talking couple days ago and he mentioned that he thought I might be an ace. So I researched it, talked to some friends and it makes me feel normal. Like it's not so super weird bc I'm not into sex., that it's okay and normal. It's the best thing

That’s amazing! :) I’m happy for you! That’s really really awesome! More people need to be like your friends! 

Looking for love. <3

Recent events have made me doubt I ever would, but I’m willingto try. 

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Anonymous said: Hi! Okay so recently I've been questioning my sexuality... I've identified as bisexual for five years now. But, upon learning about asexuality, I think I might be biromantic asexual. I'm a virgin, but I have been aroused and have masturbated before, and I like it. But the thought of having actual, physical sex does not sound appealing to me. Would you say this is asexuality? Thanks ahead of time, also your blog is very helpful!


The main thing you have to ask yourself is ‘do I experience sexual attraction to people?’. You can become aroused and masturbate, that’s just human! But, if you look at somebody and their body turns you on, then you’re probably not asexual.

I hope that helped, and thank you!

Anonymous said: Part.2 A character's sexuality is always determined by those who give the character life. If the writer(s) does't specify the character's sexuality then it can be guessed. But if the writer(s) explicitly say the character's sexuality then there is nothing the audience can say that can change the character's canon sexuality. So in this case Sheldon is not an Ace and at this point in time he their isn't a chance of him becoming one.

I apologize, I was not aware they had shot the idea down completely. Thank you for telling me politely. :)

I completely agree with all of you guys who replied on the Sheldon question. The writers are being very shitty about it, meaning the other characters are as well. They’re treating him very badly. I have another view point though. I know it’s like they’re all trying to correct him and make him something he’s not, but he could still be asexual. He hasn’t even been “fixed” by the relationship He did kiss Amy and he did agree to maybe have sex with her, but that doesn’t mean he can’t still be asexual. Asexuals have sex. Asexuals kiss. The only reason Sheldon didn’t kiss before was a) germphobia and b) human contact. I think his relationship with Amy is helping him get over his fear of human contact. But human contact doesn’t tie in with what he is sexually attracted to which so far appears to be nothing. And also, if he is autistic he can still be asexual. :) Asexuals come from all areas. These are just my opinions. ^_^ I would love comments, arguments, and debates if you have any other ideas. 

Anonymous said: I think sheldon is closer to demisexual because he has insinuated that he is highly uncomfortable with sexual interaction right now he may one day be okay with sexual interaction with Amy (I don't remember which episode he said it in, sorry!)

I recall that scene! My only problem with your suggestion is that he can still very well be asexual even if he does have sex with Amy. All that has to happen is he admits he doesn’t find her or anybody sexually attractive and he’s canonly asexual. He may be Demi though if he tells her he thinks she’s sexually attractive. Sadly, we’ll have to wait! :c